Your Teen Just Got Their Permit. Now What?

Day One

Your teen has the permit. They’re staring at you. You’re staring at the keys. Nobody knows what to do next.

Here’s the plan for the first drive.

Pick the Right Place

Empty parking lot. Sunday morning. Church parking lot, school lot, big box store before it opens. You want zero traffic, zero pedestrians, and plenty of room to make mistakes.

Don’t start on a road. Don’t start in your neighborhood. Don’t start anywhere that has other cars moving. The first 30 minutes should be about getting comfortable with the steering wheel, pedals, and mirrors without any pressure.

What to Cover First

Before they even turn the key:

• Adjust the seat so they can reach the pedals comfortably
• Set all three mirrors (rearview, left side, right side)
• Seatbelt on, both of you
• Phone away, both of you
• Explain which pedal is gas, which is brake (sounds obvious, isn’t)

First 10 minutes: Drive in a straight line. Brake gently. Repeat. Get used to the sensitivity of the pedals. Every car is different.

Next 10 minutes: Wide turns. Big circles around the parking lot. Get used to how much the wheel needs to turn.

Last 10 minutes: Practice stopping at a specific point. Pull into a parking space. Back out. Pull in again.

That’s it for day one. 30 minutes is plenty. Stop while it’s still going well. Don’t push to an hour just because you drove to the lot.

What Not to Do

Don’t yell. This is the single most common mistake parents make. Your teen is already nervous. Raising your voice makes it worse, and they’ll associate driving practice with stress. If you feel yourself getting tense, say “let’s take a break” instead of “BRAKE BRAKE BRAKE.”

Don’t grab the wheel. Unless there’s an actual emergency. Let them correct. If they’re drifting, say “you’re drifting right” in a calm voice. Don’t reach over.

Don’t do an hour. Thirty minutes is a full session for the first few drives. Fatigue and frustration build fast. Short, positive sessions beat long, stressful ones.

When to Move to Real Roads

After 3-5 parking lot sessions (about 2 hours total), move to a quiet residential street. Low speed limit, minimal traffic, no left turns across traffic. Just straight driving with right turns.

After a few residential drives, add low-traffic intersections with stop signs. Then busier roads. Then highway on-ramps. Build up gradually over weeks, not days.

Start Logging from Day One

Every session counts toward your state’s required hours. Even that first 30-minute parking lot drive. Log it. The hours add up faster when you track everything from the start.

Moda logs each session with one tap. Start, drive, stop. It tracks day vs night, weather, distance, and shows your progress against your state’s requirements. Start using it on drive one and you’ll never have to reconstruct hours from memory.

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